So, I have had some clarity of late on what my hopes are with respect to the dressing at home/work stuff. I'm also dying to talk with my SO about what I would like her to do to "play along." The maid at work game hasn't really progressed and I suspect it might be a few more weeks. I do think it will happen and I can't wait. The home maid thing is still pretty unlikely b/c of the cost of me being home instead of making money is still quite relevant. I just can't drop every second friday of work without impacting my wealth not inconsequentially. But, I did have a chance to think about it and what I figure I'd like to do is have my SO help pick out my maid dress for work and also hair colour for the maid. That seems pretty innocuous and I just have to let her know what it would mean to me. The home thing was also on my thoughts as I was hoping she would also be picking the uniform for home and hair colour for home. In my idealized outcome, she does that and she lets me do the home maid thing. Now, it is clear that it would be best for her to not be around when I do the maid thing b/c I'm sure she wouldn't want to see me dressed up. So, she starts getting away during that time. Now from here I've got two sort of dream outcomes. In both, she digs having someone do the maid work and, as a consequence, continues to allow and eventually expect or encourage the maid work. Her attitude would move from reluctantly allowing me do it, to getting more comfortable with the idea and then liking the idea. With this progression, hopefully, she would actually want to have me doing this b/c it spares her from it. As a consequence of this, at some point in the future, I would love it if, she was put out if I didn't do it one time b/c of another obligation and made sure that I did a make-up cleaning. So, that would be so amazing for me. What it would mean is she has totally become cool with me as the maid. The other way the scenario plays out involves her getting totally used to the idea and having someone she trusted compliment her cleaning lady. Of course, they would need one and ask her if hers was available. And she would! Now this is next to impossible b/c of what she is like but I can dream. I think the theme in both of these is the fact that I would like her to see Vanessa as her maid and not her partner in a dress. I would like her to see Vanessa as a reasonable likeness of a female/woman.
I don't think I mentioned that there is going to be a ton of secretarial office work to do over christmas holidays. Now, somebody has to do it. My colleague is not interested and I mentioned that I would do it to my SO and she was fine with that. So, I get to be a secretary for a week. I'm going to dress up each day! Just need to put together some outfits. Fun! and, get this, it will save a few thousand dollars so...as you have read before, here is that benefit of me dressing up thing! yay!
So that is about it for right now...should hopefully be getting out this sat, if not I'll dress up regardless.
Almost forgot, that when it looked like we were moving, I mentioned that I was sad b/c there is a room in our place which would be perfect for sewing. So when the deal fell apart, I said "that's it, I'm getting my sewing room." and she said "sure, if that's what you want to do." Yeeha!
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