some good news

Well, it has been a little while and I haven't posted too much. No massive heartbreaks or injuries in the last while, which is wonderful. I continue to adapt with facebook, I find that I have a better understanding and acceptance of those who don't use it and I am better at letting them go early on versus going through the dance of being made to feel like a bother and then being really upset when they don't make the same efforts to chat.

Last blog I mentioned coming out to a couple of ladies. It really went well and the ladies are fantastic to talk to. One is great on facebook, the other is lousy with facebook, so I just dropped that interaction. I still think she is super cool but I can't build any dynamic with her, and I won't be able to change her fb ways, so it is what it is. I ended up coming out to a couple more ladies and they are very supportive as well. All in all, it has been a good period.

I have been dressing up more in the last few months. I am worried about falling into a bad pattern now that the holidays are done and I am back to being super busy. But I will fight for my dress up time a bit more. The SO does openly acknowledge the importance of it b/c I get so poopy if I don't get to do it.

I got some new wedges that I want to try at work but I'm very eek as they are 4 inches.

I have a pair I have been wearing lately that are pretty girly

these have elicited some curious looks but I have felt okay with them. The new ones do represent a big step and I'm kind of worried about the wrong person gossiping about it. But I will forge ahead and try to open the doors to my cell a bit