oops

so I forgot about one great friend that was one of the ladies who came to the soiree last summer. She is super cool and I just love her. Anyway, she actually sent me an FB message lately to tell me that she had been thinking about my situation and was hoping to find some times for us to have girl time...how special is she...regrettably, she is super busy right now and time is pretty limited but this is great news as well!

and I also forgot that the lady who wants to go dancing and I played matching stay-ups the other day...it was so cool to do something so simple as to both plan on wearing and actually both wearing matching stay-ups to work...just like a dream.

update

Funny thing about this blogging gig...I usually feel like I have to post something when something monumental happens, but there is little tranny things going on all the time in my life. Since dressing up is part of my consciousness continuously, it works its way into my life on a daily basis. While I still sit mired in a rather long spell of not having an opportunity to get out and get really done up, I still am actively pursuing tranny stuff. I did actually get to painted once in December. It was at work and it was a blast...didn't quite have the full makeup supplies but my work make-up is getting better. I didn't get out of the office...just got painted, worked doing secretarial stuff for about 5 hours and then got unpainted...Black dress and hose, brown wig...super fun all in all.

Other than that I'm waiting for the right time to have the tranny talk with the SO. The talk will be to clarify that I have female friends that actually want to hang out with me in drag and I need them b/c I am a bit of a chicken to do it solo, plus, who likes to go to a club or out solo? Anyway, should be in the next few weeks..this will open a lot of doors for me as I will be able to plan nights and do them with friends.

As for the day to day stuff, I still haven't got a maid gig on the go yet...2 really solid opportunities are out there...one is the lovely but too far girl and the other is nearby and has potential except, I'm really stuck about getting time to get there as well.

I have had some really wonderful support from some of my wonderful and very dear friends. I have 2 really lovely ladies who I talk to 5-7 times a week and they constantly encourage me...they both would have me as a maid in a heartbeat. For some time, I have wanted to do a dance class at the burlesque center in Vancouver...the girls there seem super cool and I love the vibe of the place. Anyway, I mentioned this to one of these girls, who actually has done some dancing, and she was super enthused about us going and doing it. I also had a chat with her about what she would like to do and she said, a swing class is something she'd love to do with a boi in drag (or a girl). I think that would be amazing...so all of this is contingent on the SO being aware. I actually think it will happen.

I had a funny event lately when I was wearing pink fishnets instead of socks at work and a client made a comment...afterwards I was a bit concerned and then I totally let that go and just decided that I don't care...really...don't care...you wanna freak b/c I'm in nylons...have at 'er...I am completely not fazed...now, this doesn't mean I'm going to wave them in your face but just simply means that I'm not covering my hose with socks, to make people happy...

Here is an instance of a day to day tranny thing a client I did something for is a wealthyish person (likely with hubby)...anyway, when we interacted, I did my usual "I want to be a housekeeper" story...standard and done in a very logical, practical manner ...not trannyfied at all..."I thought about woodwork or mechanics but I couldn't risk hurting my hands...etcetera" still a bit of a kooky story but really not that crazy....anyway, she mentioned sort of jokingly that she'd hire me, this is usually in response to a discussion about how so many women have said they wouldn't hire me b/c I'm a boy. It was all quite fun and then she mentioned that she has 18 foot windows that she hates cleaning and I said "that would be included"...you could tell that, for a moment, she seriously considered it. Anyway, I saw her yesterday and she mentioned our discussion, "you were talking about cleaning my house...smile"...I asked if she was going to hire me after the work stuff was done with...she re-mentioned the windows and I said that I would do it and then she asked if I would have time...I said I could work it out, explaining that I don't have enough work to fill my week. ...I even said to her that I thought our last talk was interesting b/c I could tell that me doing the windows really got her thinking...she said that she will seriously consider it and call me. Now, she won't ever call and that is fine but it was so REAL it was wonderful...also, I then started to wonder about what I could wear for her...I thought....black lululemon style pants, black nylons and a loafer style shoe (indoor/clean soled shoe for working without scratching) and a white t-shirt...so the nylons are hidden but not completely...then after a few months...maybe a longer t-shirt/tunic...with a capri length pant ...and an apron...sigh